With each day, your partner's belly gets larger and your baby continues to grow... that means that the clock is ticking.  Take advantage of this time to romance each other and relish in the fact that it's just the two of you.  After the baby arrives, life will be a little (a lot) hectic and romance (including sex) will be the last thing on your mind.  Remember that a baby is all "id,"  which means that it's all about him/her for the next several years.  But don't fret about that yet... just enjoy life right now and get on with the romance before the baby arrives.  Here are some simple, yet effective ways to spice things up:

1. Conceal cute love notes or small wrapped chocolates where your cutie will be sure to find them--in the car, under his/her pillow or in a travel bag.
 

2. Leave cute messages in the voicemail, send a text message, or cell phone photo with a sweet or seductive meaning.
 
3. Send an old-fashioned letter with a cute hand-drawn picture of both of you doing something romantic together.

4. On the way home from work, pick up his or her favorite treat or snack, a specialty coffee or dessert as a sweet surprise.

 
5. Surprise your sweetheart with his or her favorite romantic movie. 

 
6. Give each other foot massages and back rubs to soft music and candlelight.  Prenatal massage can be enjoyable and arousing for both you and your pregnant wife or girlfriend.  Tips on how to give a prenatal massage are found in our step-by-step guide to massage.

 
7. Dress up or wear something that you know your sweetheart loves to see on you.
 

8. Snuggle up and take a nap together. Nothing beats falling asleep and waking up in the arms of the one you love.

 
9. Slowly dance around the room to the song you agree is his/her favorite song—something you heard when you first met or fell in love.

 
10. Gather your favorite foods, drinks and desserts, a comfortable blanket and some utensils, plates, cups and napkins and head out to the beach or park to watch the sunset. 

---

Add this page to your social bookmarks.