Finding a qualified babysitter isn’t as easy as it used to be. Teens seem to be busier and more preoccupied than ever with cell phones, computer chatting, video games, and lots of MTV. So how to find just the right sitter for your precious child? Here are some guidelines.
First, start with someone old and mature enough to handle your child. The American Red Cross suggests you avoid anyone younger than 11 years of age. Other childcare experts say babysitters should be at least 14. If you have an infant, or two or more children that require sitting, it’s best to seek out someone older — a high school senior or college student -- as things can get very quickly out of control. Additionally, babysitters who care for infants should be familiar with infant CPR and first aid — something a 17-year old or older would know.
So where are these ideal teens? Ask friends, relatives and neighbors if they know a good sitter in your neighborhood, someone whose parents are close by in case of problems or emergencies. Once you get a few candidates, invite them in and talk to them for a few minutes. Ask for and check all references.
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It’s not a bad idea for first time sitters to get to know your child while you’re occupied in another room. Listen closely and observe the sitter as they play and care for your child. Pay particular attention to how the sitter handles anger and discipline issues. If you select a younger sitter (preteen or early teen), meet the sitter's parents and introduce them to your child. The sitter’s parents should be readily available in case of emergencies.
Now the final question: What to pay? Depends on how many children you have and whether or not you need the sitter to cook, change diapers, drive your child to the park, etc. Generally, rates go from $5 to $13 an hour. Ask your neighbors, parents and references what the going rate is in your neighborhood. And don’t go cheap. Remember, it’s your “baby” not a lawn that needs mowing or a car that needs washing.
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